Today I want to talk about the feelings, thoughts and energy of needing money. I know that when there is not a lot of money to pay the bills that our thoughts and energy are one of needing. We are focused on what we need. It consumes our days, our lives, the constant worry, wondering where the money is going to come from, wondering what you can sell to get the money, how to make more money. All this has a certain energy to it, not an uplifting energy of joy and happiness, but a worrying, stressful energy which only attracts more of the same to you. Let me explain in this blog how changing the energy from one of need to one of faith can change your circumstances and bring you the money from unknown and surprising places.
Like attracts like
I am talking energy here, when we are down and all we can think of is down thoughts, we are attracting to us more down situations and experiences to us. It is the law of attraction at work here. When we are struggling to pay the bills and all we can think of all day long is how we are going to able to pay everything, where is the money coming from? Feeling the stress of it all, we are in fact asking for more of the same to come to us. More worry, more stress, more struggle to pay the bills.
It is the same when it is reversed, when we are thinking and focusing on joyful things and experiences, we attract more joy into our lives.
Personally I have heard of this so many times over the years and have had to make changes in my mood and thinking to get myself to a better place, to bring about change. I can truly say it does work. For me I noticed that when I let go and stopped worrying I found the money would appear from somewhere, things worked out, the bills were paid. I don’t know how, but just like magic it all works out, time and time again.
Think back to a time when you were worried about where the money would come from, and how somehow it came and you were able to pay it. It works.
Letting go
You just have to let go and trust that everything is going to work out, just like every other time beforehand. Have you noticed something about the rich people? They do not need money, yet they seem to make more and more money when they do not need to. It is a different energy they hold within themselves. Try it now…. Close your eyes and imagine that you do not need money, that you have all that you need and then some…. Feel the lightness of the energy…. Now think about all the struggle you have been experiencing with paying the bills, the worry, the stress, where is it going to come from?…. Do you feel the heaviness of that energy?
So when we let go and be in the energy of having enough and that everything is going to be ok, we attract to us more of that same energy, more of having enough, our circumstances change, the money comes from somewhere.
My recent experience
Recently I was in need of money, so much stress, didn’t know how I was going to pay for everything, I was going through the house looking for items to sell, trying to sell things for as little as $2, just to get some money coming in. I knew I had to let go and change the energy and was saying affirmations everyday to help with my mindset. I would say that ‘there’s is always enough for me’, ‘there is enough money to pay the bills’, ‘it is safe for me to receive money’, ‘its ok to be rich’. There are many affirmations out there, you can google and find them.
So I was saying these affirmations everyday when ever I could remember, then one day I was having a conversation with a friend and he was wanting me to join his organisation and make money the way he was making money, telling me many other people were successful because they were following his system etc. I was telling him thank you but no thank you as that line of work was not for me, I had tried it before, but it wasn’t for me. The conversation went on for some time but what I remember the most was the feeling I was getting while talking with him, it was the feeling of needy and greedy and he was trying to fill me with fear of not having enough so I would take action with his system. I could feel it and that is when a shift happened within me. I thought about all the things I had online, trying to sell things on Facebook, how it was making me feel down and stressed that nothing was selling and reducing the prices even lower, with still no success. I knew it was draining my energy by checking all the time the facebook notifications to see if it was someone wanting to buy something from me. It felt horrible, it was then that I let go. I told myself that I did not want to feel that fear and that he was not going to get me to do what he was doing based from fear. I stood strong in knowing that type of work did not suit me and I let go of trying to make money. I took down most of the things I had listed for sale, the big ticket items I have kept up , but the rest I have taken to charity shops and it feels so much better. I feel lighter, happier knowing I am helping others out by giving the things away.
Things started to change
From that moment, I felt things change in me, I felt more confident for one, I was proud of myself but I also felt confident that things would work out. Even though in the next couple of weeks my pay will take a big cut, I have a feeling of it going to be ok.
What started to happen not only with how I felt but money started to come in, from unexpected places, I sold things that have I have trying to sell for some time, orders come in for some soy wax melts, gifts of money come in, people were offering to pay without me asking them to, all this is amazing and confirmation of how letting go of needing money brings about change and brings more money into your life.
Opportunities will open up for you, business will pick up because you are no longer focused on the money and having to make money, you can now focus on giving a good service and doing what brings you joy.
Getting help
If you want to change your life, you have to change. I am sure you have heard of this saying before and it means you have to change the way you think, which in turn will change what actions you take and how you feel. It is the feelings that are vibrations that is what attracts like to like.
In this article I have given some helpful advice, some affirmations and have shown you how our stress and worry about lack of money only brings us more lack of money. We even did an exercise to experiment how the different energies felt, the one of not needing and having enough to the the feelings of struggle and not enough. These are all very helpful and have helped me over the years.
Robyn Lemsing
4th February 2018