I could question, why? Why this late in life that we finally meet again to come together? Although we still have some logistics to work through until we are properly together, I am turning 51 this year and have like most of us been waiting and wanting to be with the man of my dreams for as long as I can remember. Why has it taken so long for this to come into fruition?
Some might go down the path of manifesting….
You hear of divine timing and I tend to agree with that and also go a bit deeper.
Divine timing – yes – when both of you have gone through life experiences and learnt whatever lessons you both needed in this lifetime to bring both of you to the same level, to the same vibration. Both getting to the same level of understanding about love, self love, unconditional love. Both have learnt to let go of fears and to let go of control.
Both have not only gone through whatever experiences and previous relationships to learn the required lessons but both had to heal themselves too.
This is when the two souls can come together again.
If one has already reached the stage of unconditional love of self and others and the other has not – then one will have a period of perhaps waiting while the other one catches up – in fact both need to go through a period of being alone as part of the growing and evolving process.
Some relationships gurus out there will go down the path of femininity and learning how to be feminine to attract the right type of guy and to a degree this is true but it still comes under what I have previously spoken about.
We all have certain lessons to learn, and how we humans do that is through life experience. Now femininity is about letting go of control, about learning to feel your emotions and to be able to deal with them, how to express them and how to be authentic, its about being strong on the inside and soft and gentle on the outside.
I do agree that women do need to learn this and is one of the lessons to learn, perhaps we learn it through being in romantic relationships. For me personally I did this in the years I was alone, in the years I had to learn and accept myself completely, therefore bringing me to a stage of being able to love and accept others completely.
And with us coming together it is wonderful, its magic, it’s so beautiful.
To be with him feels no natural, so comfortable so easy, it feels like home. Like I have known him forever and I probably have known him and been with him in previous lifetimes. In this lifetime we were in the same high school and were friends after high school before we both moved away for work and at that time we both didn’t know and were completely unaware that it was the start of our time apart, our time of separation to go off and learn what we needed to learn in order to be able to come back together again.
Even though it feels so familiar and being with him is easy and so very comfortable, he is still a stranger in a sense. I am still to learn about him now as an adult, now as a man in his 50’s and not a man in his late teens, early 20s, when I knew him last. I am still to learn his ways in this 3D world, I am still to learn of the life he created and how he interacts with it.
We have such a powerful soul connection and 5D connection, we are always in telepathic communication with each other that today it feels like we don’t need 3D words, today there has been no text, no phone call, yet it feels or seems no need. We have been connected all day and have had many conversations already today telepathically.
In his words ‘its magic’.
Today to even think of any thoughts of doubt, of insecurity of fear, of mistrust seem so small and so petty. Today I feel I have evolved in another level and such thoughts I may have had yesterday seem so small so useless, such a waste of time, they feel heavy as well.
Robyn Lemsing
3rd April 2019