Well, here I am embarking on this journey of becoming a writer, I feel nervous, anxious and as if I have nothing to share. I have no idea of how to do this, no idea what to write even. I am not good at English, grammar or spelling. I am sure there are so many…
WARNING: This article could trigger you, could push up against some of your beliefs and perspectives. Remember though what ever buttons that maybe pushed here are your buttons. Whatever labels or judgements you may want to place on this man or myself then I suggest you look within to find out why you are being…
This question has been troubling me for a very long time and I always thought I had to come with a profession or a career or something of significance as an answer. My first response to this question, when asked, is nothing – I want to do nothing. Now I never did voice this answer…
Now here’s an interesting subject which I am sure will challenge some of you, it certainly challenged me for a while until I sat with it and processed the information I found about this interesting topic. Now the theory goes like this, up until you are engaged to marry a man, you are single, you…
Nowadays with women having to enter the workforce as well as men to earn enough money for the family to have a reasonable lifestyle, it can be challenging to show up feminine. Especially single mothers who are the provider and the carer and all the roles in between. We want a masculine energy guy, a…
I find myself smiling as I remember a male friend saying to me “how many dates do I need to remember?” It’s true, isn’t it. We girls have a date for everything, the date we met, the date we first kissed, the date we started going out, the date of our engagement and then the…
A very dear male friend of mine recently said this to me ‘It seems you need a guy and any guy will do’. This comment sparked curiosity in me and made me explore this and to see if it was actually true. I looked at patterns I have and had around relationships and I looked…
What a difference clarity can make to how you feel and your energy. The past few days I have been feeling heavy, sad, confused, worried and stressed. There has been certain challenges this week and I thought it was these challenges that were making me feel stressed, even though I had been moving through them,…
Well after a few days of uncomfortable communication with my partner,I woke up to something thinking about things morning. I had been quiet with not a lot to talk about, not in a mood nor could sense anything going on just not a lot to talk about, this caused some conflict within myself as I…
My journey 21.1.11 Today I was made to realise that everything I did or intended to do was to inspire others or help others, maybe make it into a business opportunity. That I was to fill some very big shoes. Like simply saying I want to dance, made me think, I can’t do that, I’m…