Q – GOD, I can’t do this anymore, I can’t do relationships. Why do I have to go through this? What am I to learn, what do I need to change in me to have different experiences? A – Love yourself, really love yourself, like you love others, really give yourself the support, the love,…
To love unconditionally is to accept others regardless of where they are on their journey to self love and unconditional love. To hold the loving space for them, to have compassion and understanding for where they are at, to understand they have unconscious beliefs that is controlling their behaviour, their actions and non-actions. Q –…
I wonder…. You hear beautiful songs of love and see it in movies, but does it really exist?. Are we chasing a fantasy, some make believe idea of love and relationships? Do people even know how to love these days or are we (I say we in a very broad and general way) so busy…
I could question, why? Why this late in life that we finally meet again to come together? Although we still have some logistics to work through until we are properly together, I am turning 51 this year and have like most of us been waiting and wanting to be with the man of my dreams…
Do I have anything to worry about here? No, not at all. I think it is all lessons for me to accept him as he is, to accept the situation as it is, to let go of control, to love unconditionally. I know he loves me – he may not say it often, may not…
I had an experience yesterday that made me realise something about how we see other people. When I refer to other people I mean all people, the ones that are close to us, the ones we only see now and then and it also refers to people we know in the news or media. I…
I know what I am about to say may spark some criticism and some people may not agree with me and that is fine. What I share are my thoughts, my observations and my opinions. For a long time now I have been thinking about how different parenting styles can have an effect on how…
A very dear male friend of mine recently said this to me ‘It seems you need a guy and any guy will do’. This comment sparked curiosity in me and made me explore this and to see if it was actually true. I looked at patterns I have and had around relationships and I looked…
What a difference clarity can make to how you feel and your energy. The past few days I have been feeling heavy, sad, confused, worried and stressed. There has been certain challenges this week and I thought it was these challenges that were making me feel stressed, even though I had been moving through them,…
Well after a few days of uncomfortable communication with my partner,I woke up to something thinking about things morning. I had been quiet with not a lot to talk about, not in a mood nor could sense anything going on just not a lot to talk about, this caused some conflict within myself as I…